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Hothouse Kids

I’m really interested in reading this book. The issue of “giftedness” and what it truly is and means is something that seems to be a hot topic. See Lisa’s post from January. The notion of a child being truly gifted, a prodigy, is something I know would be an awesome responsibility. But what is the difference between a child who is truly gifted and one who a parent programs and pushes to become gifted. 

Alissa Quart takes us on a journey to the dark heart of the parenting meritocracy in her new book, “Hothouse Kids: The Dilemma of the Gifted Child.” In her view, an increased emphasis on the early years of childhood by sociologists and educators coalesced with parental fears of failing schools and a faltering economy sometime in the mid- to late 1990s. Stir in some astute marketing by firms such as the Baby Einstein Co. and you have the makings of modern American childhood, a period marked by an increased emphasis on study and structured activity and less on play. Or at least it’s that way for upper-middle-class progeny, the ones with parents who have the extra money to buy their kids extra attention and services. 

Finding the balance between encouraging growth and instilling a life long love of learning with the complex, competitive culture our children are becoming a part of, is a challenge. Having been a gifted child herself, I’m anxious to read about her thoughts on what it was like and how her parents handled it. I don’t think my children are gifted–I think they’re bright and motivated and are hungry to learn. That’s enough for me–I hope it will be for them as well.

 

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